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The fun part of hooking up ends when you start being attracted to that particular guy beyond physical reasons. Soon, you’ll find yourself sighing over a possibility that your hearts might collide, which usually never happens unless Cupid struck him real bad.
One night stands are like quickies- fast, convenient and no need for extra effort. In the culture of hooking up, you have to expect nothing further. If you’re interested, you’d certainly go for it. Just make sure you brought some protection in case he didn’t. Say no directly if you’re not into it. No need to make excuses or explain why because you don’t owe him that. Just be firm and leave before he corners you.
If you’re a hopeless romantic wishing that every guy you sleep with will fall in love and sweep you off your feet like a Prince Charming, then this activity isn’t for you. Evidently, you need the 411 on how to tell a hook up tale from a love story.
How do you know if he’s just trying to lay you down?
He puts his best foot forward.
He’ll even try hard to be a clown.
Every smile and laugh you let out earns him points to move on to the next step.
Minutes later, he could be whispering in your ear, smelling your hair, holding your hand, touching your lower back or planting kisses on your neck.
What if you’ve already slept with him and-
Oh no! Did I just hear you say you like him?
Hold on. Before you eternally sink deep into that quicksand of emotions, do you know if he likes you back? Is he even interested in more than just a shag? Experts, and I mean, the guys themselves who’ve experienced hooking up more than they’ve walked their dogs or done their schoolwork share what they know regarding the signs that shout he’s just not that into you at all.
Here they are:
He only contacts you through SMS, chat or emails. This way, he doesn’t have to connect through real conversation which he wouldn’t bother with when he’s just planning to bed you. A few words and emoticons will save him the sweat. It’s also easier way to shift the subject to sex. Meaning, he’s just not that into you.
He frequently texts back later than eight or nine in the evening. Are you just going to settle for second and bottom choice? Trust me, he’s just not that into you.
He doesn’t text back. Period. He’s just not that into you.
You don’t get a text or call or email from him within a few days past the hookup. If he’s interested in seeing you, he’ll cross rivers and oceans to reach you again. Don’t waste your patience for the message that will never come and accept that he’s just not that into you.
He never tries to talk to you or approach you first. Isn’t it clear enough? He’s just not that into you.
He’s never around you. If he’s interested, he’ll find ways and reasons to be where you are. Otherwise, he’s just not that into you.
He intentionally avoids you like you’ve caught a deadly virus. I repeat. He’s just not that into you.
He makes you feel alone when you’re together in public. Rest assured he will be looking in other directions to see if he’s been spotted by anyone he knows, checking his phone repeatedly or talking to you like you’re one-of-the-boys all because he doesn’t want people to know you’re hooking up. And because he’s just not that into you.
Does he even remember your name? If it’s just darl, hon or baby, then he’s just not that into you.
He knows that love, babies, romantic dates and plans about your future are things you’ll want to hear. Well, let us tell you want you need to hear. He’s just not that into you.
If you think he has poor memory coz he can’t remember what course you’re taking up or that you have a pet cobra, think again. He’s probably forgotten about the details because he’s just not that into you.
He says he’s not sure about how he feels when you’ve been going out for a longer period of time. Don’t buy it for he actually means he knows he feels nothing for you other than that hard on. So face it. He’s just not that into you.
There’s a lot of ease when he talks to you about other girls or a relationship with someone else. That’s enough notice that he’s just not that into you.
You only get to talk when he’s drunk. So don’t you feel any bit of special because if you always end up nowhere but below or on top of him, then he’s just not that into you.
He never takes you out to lunch, dinner or weekend dates. But he can spend to take you drinking and checking into a low-priced hotel afterwards. Why not walk out on him if he thinks you’re that cheap? When will you ever realize that he’s just not that into you?
Oops, this post is too long already. You might get bored, grab some snacks first and get ready for the part two of He Just Wants To Get Into Your Pants!